When it comes to decorating a bedroom with a feminine touch, pink and frilly isn’t the only option — although it certainly is one for those who love the concept. A woman’s bedroom is the one place in the home where she can indulge the most “girly” side of her personality without fear of criticism.

Hot neon colors or soft pastels are good choices for painting the walls, depending on whether you prefer bold and sassy or soft and romantic. If you don’t have to incorporate a spouse’s tastes and preferences into your décor, add as many “girly” colors as you like to the design palette. For carpet and window treatments, choose a shade that matches or compliments your paint colors. Make the carpet as plush as you would like, and add a couple of fluffy rugs that you can sink your toes into.

Natural lighting gives the bedroom an open, airy atmosphere, so unless you have a reason to need to block out light during the day, stay away from heavy drapes and blinds for your window treatments. Lace curtains will soften the light coming into the room during the day, and enhance its feminine appeal.

A four-poster bed with a soft canopy overhead creates a distinctly romantic focal point. Canopy covers are available in a wide range of colors and textures— think lace and delicate, gauzy fabrics. Incorporate shiny and soft fabrics such as satin and silk for your bed linens and duvet, or if you want a warmer feel, choose a soft cotton or flannel for the sheets. Add lots of large, colorful, fluffy pillows on the bed, with a pile of stuffed animals or dolls.

Furniture should be functional yet comfortable, and can include a soft, comfortable settee or love seat, and a hope chest. Add more pillows and stuffed animals or dolls to the settee. If your room lacks a walk-in closet, an armoire can also add a nicely feminine look. Add shelves and adorn them with feminine trinkets and decorations such as collections of dolls and miniature dollhouses, colorful diaries and favorite books.

A vanity — basically, a desk with a mirror attached — is a uniquely feminine article of furniture that will enhance its romantic appeal as well. Pair it with a softly upholstered stool or chair, and a white dresser for additional clothes storage.

Ornamental knickknacks and picture frames with favorite photos can also enhance the femininity of the décor, along with delicate glass vases and aromatic candles.